I'm still learning about myself and I am not really sure who I am yet, or what God has planned. What I do know for sure is that I have wonderful examples of true love surrounding me in life. I can say that my faith in God, and the fact that true love is real and possible, may be the two things I really and truly believe in life.
I found this article online and it just reminded me how lucky I am to have found the love of my life already, and how lucky I am that we'll be together forever- I know corny =)
By MATT SEDENSKY, Associated Press Writer
Sun Oct 12, 3:11 PM ET
NORTH MIAMI BEACH, Fla. - In the beginning, there was a boy, a girl and an apple.
He was a teenager in a concentration camp in Nazi-controlled Germany. She was a bit younger, living free in the village, her family posing as Christians. Their eyes met through a barbed-wire fence and she wondered what she could do for this handsome young man.
She was carrying apples, and decided to throw one over the fence. He caught it and ran away toward the barracks. And so it began.
As they tell it, they returned the following day and she tossed an apple again. And each day after that, for months, the routine continued. She threw, he caught, and both scurried away.
They never knew one another's name, never uttered a single word, so fearful they'd be spotted by a guard. Until one day he came to the fence and told her he wouldn't be back.
"I won't see you anymore," she said. "Right, right. Don't come around anymore," he answered.
And so their brief and innocent tryst came to an end. Or so they thought.
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Before he was shipped off to a death camp, before the girl with the apples appeared, Herman Rosenblat's life had already changed forever.
His family had been forced from their home into a ghetto. His father fell ill with typhus. They smuggled in a doctor, but there was little he could do to help. The man knew what was coming. He summoned his youngest son. "If you ever get out of this war," Rosenblat remembers him saying, "don't carry a grudge in your heart and tolerate everybody."
Two days later, the father was dead. Herman was just 12.
The family was moved again, this time to a ghetto where he shared a single room with his mother, three brothers, uncle, aunt and four cousins. He and his brothers got working papers and he got a factory job painting stretchers for the Germans.
Eventually, the ghetto was dissolved. As the Poles were ushered out, two lines formed. In one, those with working papers, including Rosenblat and his brothers. In the other, everyone else, including the boys' mother.
Rosenblat went over to his mother. "I want to be with you," he cried. She spoke harshly to him and one of his brothers pulled him away. His heart was broken.
"I was destroyed," Rosenblat remembers. It was the last time he would ever see her.
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It was in Schlieben, Germany, that Rosenblat and the girl he later called his angel would meet. Roma Radziki worked on a nearby farm and the boy caught her eye. And bringing him food — apples, mostly, but bread, too — became part of her routine.
"Every day," she says, "every day I went."
Rosenblat says he would secretly eat the apples and never mentioned a word of it to anyone else for fear word would spread and he'd be punished or even killed. When Rosenblat learned he would be moved again — this time to Theresienstadt, in what is now the Czech Republic — he told the girl he would not return.
Not long after, the Russians rolled in on a tank and liberated Rosenblat's camp. The war was over. She went to nursing school in Israel. He went to London and learned to be an electrician.
Their daily ritual faded from their minds.
"I forgot," she says.
"I forgot about her, too," he recalls.
Rosenblat eventually moved to New York. He was running a television repair shop when a friend phoned him one Sunday afternoon and said he wanted to fix him up with a girl. Rosenblat was unenthusiastic: He didn't like blind dates, he told his friend. He didn't know what she would look like. But finally, he relented.
It went well enough. She was Polish and easygoing. Conversation flowed, and eventually talk turned to their wartime experiences. Rosenblat recited the litany of camps he had been in, and Radziki's ears perked up. She had been in Schlieben, too, hiding from the Nazis.
She spoke of a boy she would visit, of the apples she would bring, how he was sent away.
And then, the words that would change their lives forever: "That was me," he said.
Rosenblat knew he could never leave this woman again. He proposed marriage that very night. She thought he was crazy. Two months later she said yes.
In 1958, they were married at a synagogue in the Bronx — a world away from their sorrows, more than a decade after they had thought they were separated forever.
___
It all seems too remarkable to be believed. Rosenblat insists it is all true.
Even after their engagement, the couple kept the story mostly to themselves, telling only those closest to them. Herman says it's because they met at a point in his life he'd rather forget. But eventually, he said, he felt the need to share it with others.
Now, the Rosenblats' story has inspired a children's book, "Angel Girl." And eventually, there are plans to turn it into a film, "The Flower of the Fence." Herman expects to publish his memoirs next year.
Michael Berenbaum, a distinguished Holocaust scholar who has authored a dozen books, has read Rosenblatt's memoir and sees no reason to question it.
"I wasn't born then so I can't say I was an eyewitness. But it's credible," Berenbaum said. "Crazier things have happened."
Herman is now 79, and Roma is three years his junior; they celebrated their 50th anniversary this summer. He often tells their story to Jewish and other groups.
He believes the lesson is the very one his father imparted.
"Not to hate and to love — that's what I am lecturing about," he said. "Not to hold a grudge and to tolerate everybody, to love people, to be tolerant of people, no matter who they are or what they are."
The anger of the concentration camps, Herman says, has gone away. He forgave. And his life has been filled with love.
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5 comments:
This post made me cry!
Well at least I know I'm not the only sap around!
Monday, October 13, 2008
http://northwardho.blogspot.com/2008/10/questions-arise-over-truth-of-angel.html
Laurie
With all respect to you for a wonderful book, etc, I think you are aware that some Questions arise over "truth" of "ANGEL GIRL" children's book by Herman and Roma Rosenblat of Florida. Did the "events they describe really take place? I am Jewish to don't get worried, I am on your side and their side, but as a reader, reader of the AP story today, too, there are some major holes in their story. You might have been taken for a ride. And maybe you knowingly went along for the ride. It's a great story, but should we label it fiction or nonfiction? Fiction is best. Nonfiction raises questions, and lots of people on the Net are asking now. Is this another hoax? You remember that LIVING WITH WOLVES story book a few years ago by a Boston woman, France even made a movie of it. Turns out tobe a hoax. So can you answer these questions below.
Again, I am on your side, I am writer, I am a children's book writer, I love my people Israel, but I am just curious if this story is true the way the AP told it. Can you inform us?
Cheers and shalom aleichem
Danny BLoom
Tufts 1971
AP caption for PHOTO: Herman and Roma Rosenblat pose for a photo in their North Miami Beach, Florida home on Sept. 25, 2008, as they talk about 'Angel Girl', the book written by Laurie Friedman, about the beginning of their relationship during the Holocaust.
Questions have arisen on blogs and websites over the "truth" of "ANGEL GIRL" --children's book by Herman and Roma Rosenblat of Florida. Did the "events they describe really take place? Or did they make some things up, which of course fiction writers can do, but this is billed as a work of non-fiction, and the story they told the AP news story from Miami bureau says they said this is their true story. But questions remain. Michael Berenbaum, a Holocaust historian in LA, has read the book and told the AP reporter that "he sees no reason to question it".
AP story here. Very well reported. Questions linger, however:
http://ap.google.com/article/ALeqM5hnkoZDntzu__941CkUHI4ab7tNGgD93P468O0
But why even bring up the subject of questioning the book's veracity? By the very questioning and the very seeing no reason to question it, this raises an alarm bell among some readers and reviewers, especially razzmatazz over at amazon.com who reviewed the book there.
Of course, I hope this story is true and can be fact checked. I hope the book is not a tall tale, or a kind of literary hoax of the children's book kind. But remember, good people have done this kind of thing before.
See Internet comments here:
one reviewer says
"The publicity relating to this book and the proposed movie has raised
several questions about inconsistencies between the story and the
known facts of the Holocaust. Ms. Lipstadt, well-known Holocaust
authority, has mentioned several of those issues in her blog.
Recognizing that the principals of the story were children living
during unbelievably horrific times, it is possible that their
understanding at the time and their interpretation in later life do
not accurately reflect what truly happened. With the questions raised
about gas chambers, notification of death sentences, and other
details, it is surprising that neither of the Rosenblatts has chosen
to address those questions. Before I use this book in my classroom as
part of my Holocaust education curriculum, I would appreciate the
Rosenblatt's explanations. "
--by RAAZMATAZZ
2.
Edith S. Kubicek says:
"Razzamatazz has got it right, but is too cautious in his/her
critique. The facts are that the Rosenblatt "Apples Over the Fence"
story is so full of holes that it reads like a wholly invented fairy
tale. From the point of view of one who has been there -- I am a
survivor of six German concentration camps and am of the same age as
Mr. Rosenblatt -- the details of the story are implausible at best,
and at variance with verifiable historical facts at worst. Here is
just one example -- and I am talking of the Rosenblatt story and not
of the children's book -- he says that he spent the last three months
of the war in Theresienstadt where "on May 10, 1945, I was scheduled
to die in the gas chambers at 10:00 AM." There are only three things
wrong with this quotation.
1) Nobody ever received an advance notification of an extermination appointment.
2) World War II ended officially on May 8, 1945.
3) And this is the kicker: Theresienstadt never had any gas chamber --
not then nor ever. ''
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3
''I thought that Herman met Roma while he was in Schlieben? I had
heard that Roma lived in Dresden which was near to Schlieben.''
4.
''This is a touching story with a miraculous ending. The idea that
this is a true story really seems remarkable. I have read other
comments that question whether it is a true story or not. I'll be very
disappointed if I ever learn that it is not. ''
5. HOWEVER.... None of these comments from random folks posting on the Internet above are
smoking guns. Skepticism, yes, but the facts that
these folks question (him being given an appointment to die, the date of
his liberation, etc.) are not things that we know since we were not there, and I'm not
sure where they get them from.
One of the most well-known Holocaust scholars in the U.S. reviewed Rosenblat's story and said the
descriptions, in the book, etc., all matched up.
Unless someone else with credibility comes forward and tells us
otherwise, we'll have to simply take this story with a grain of salt,
since there is really no one alive to discredit the story of their
romance.
6.
What if it turns out that this book is sort of fictiony, sort of made
up, but still a good story? This kind of faux book has been done
before, some women in Boston wrote a book about living wolves during
the Holocaust and France even made a movie of it, but it turns out the
book was a fiction, not a true story as she said it was. Has anyone,
like a reporter for the NYTimes or LA Times, checked into the true
veracity of this lovely inspiring "story". I hope I am wrong, but has
anything checked. If there is a smoking gun here it will be
embarassing.
a friend told me: "Based on my research and that of others, there is
no reason to question the fact that Herman was held in Nazi camps and
that Roma was posing as a Christian in a village. I don't doubt at all
that an apple was passed once or more, or that they met by chance
years later. But they may have exaggerated the fact that they managed
to toss an apple every single day for months. I think there is no way
to verify it was true, but maybe I am making too much of my
skepticism. So I hope you're wrong and that no one sees any reason to
doubt them. "
AND the AP reporter even asks this: "It all seems too remarkable to be
believed. Rosenblat insists it is all true." WHY THE WORD INSISTS
HERE?
The AP news said this too: Michael Berenbaum, a distinguished
Holocaust scholar who has authored a dozen books, has read
Rosenblatt's memoir and sees no reason to question it. [BUT JUST
TALKING ABOUT QUESTIONING IT MEANS SOME PEOPLE ARE QUESTIONING IT....]
"I wasn't born then so I can't say I was an eyewitness. But it's
credible," Berenbaum said. "Crazier things have happened."
So...
What if this "story", the backstory, turns out to be a fib? Remember
those other Holocaust stories that later turned out to be pure
fiction? And also got made into movies? Some reporter should check
into this to see if indeed the Rosenblats, who seem like a lovely
living couple, have indeed told the entire ''truth'' about how they
met. I suspect they did tell the truth. I hope it's a true story.
But. Some reporter should check.
Whether fiction or nonfiction this is a story that has a moral to it and shows us that God always has a plan. Sometimes it takes years to understand, but LOVE does conquer all. Love, mom
oh my gosh what is the deal? haha it was an incredible story why can't people leave it alone. thanks for sharing it ash!
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